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Don’t solve your problems!

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Problems should not be solved

Does that sound weird to you? You probably learned that you should solve problems. So did I. But i changed my thoughts about the “problem solving attitude”.  Solving problems never really worked well.  Okay, I solved some of them but you know what happens: after solving issue A issue B is knocking on your door, and so on.  A never ending problem circle. Do you recognise this? Think back about situations in your life and ask yourself if problems in your life are gone or still present…

Facing challenges

People are very creative, our mind is for sure! When we face challenges in life we start thinking about how to overcome them. We think about several strategies, most people do that. Our mind is working non stop. When thinking of solutions we also focus on the problem/situation itself and what might happen if there is no solution. For example: you face an empty or almost empty bank account. You start thinking what to do to fill it, because bills got to be paid etc.  So you need money asap. Your mind thinks about selling stuff, looking for a job, earning some pennies online, a loan, and so on… Meanwhile you realise you need a miracle. And then fear comes in: what if you will not be able to earn a single dollar… you won’t be able to pay the bills, you have no food on the table, you… (fill in the blank). You start feeling panic, fearfull thoughts arise, your heartbeat rises, you feel very bad! Some people will even start feeling depressed, not knowing what to do. Imagine what this does to your body and your mood!

What you focus on will grow bigger

So you focus on your issue, in our example the empty bank account, but it can be any kind of problem. You don’t feel good, because besides you try to solve the situation, you worry about the outcome. We all do if we act like this.  Your energy is low, your mood fearfull, down, angry, or you experience panic. You start feeling tired because of all the worries you experience. And you can’t stop thinking about them. Instead of taking a break your mind creates more fearful thoughts or weird solutions to “solve” your situation.  Your focus is on the problem, even when you focus on solutions. Solutions are part of the problem! And it grows bigger and bigger, that is what happens when we try to solve situations and problems. Or in other life experiences. It is a Universal Law: the more you focus on something, the more you think about it, the bigger it gets!

Rise above your problems!

Instead of thinking about your situations, issues, problems, etc. and what to do to “solve”  them simply rise above them! Stop putting energy in thoughts and feelings that make you feel bad, sad, fearfull, down, etc. You really don’t want these emotions and thoughts to grow! If you decide to rise above whatever situation you face in life you let it go, you free yourself and chose to feel good, whatever happens. This empties your mind, you will feel relieved even with the empty bank account from our example. Instead of focusing on what to do and being afraid you simply let it go. You refuse to let negative energy in your life, you refuse to feel bad, because those actions won’t help you at all! If you rise above your problems and chose to feel good whatever happens you might be surprised of what will happen.

In a positive state of mind you are open to receive!

Remember what you focus on will grow bigger. Think and feel positive and you will attract solutions for whatever situation on auto-pilot. That is the way the Universe works. You should never worry about situations in life, no matter how challenging they are. Refuse to be overwhelmed, refuse to be a victim of the circumstances. Take back your inner power, rise and rise and rise above all unwanted stuff in life, no matter how big or small the issue is. Step aside and focus on good feelings, take positive actions, accept the problems and situations in your life the way they are and try to learn from them. The Universe will respond in a positive way, believe me, all you need to do is trust in this Universal Law.

 

It takes time and exercise

It takes some exercise to become an expert in not to worry and stop being a problem solver, enjoy the experience, have patience and do your best. Go for it. Don’t be harsh to yourself if you fail. You can’t fail by the way, by being aware of your thoughts, emotions and moodswings,  you are doing a great job! When unwanted feelings, thoughts etc. enter your system simply take a step back, take a deep breath and focus on something completely different. Something that makes YOU feel good.

Your life will start changing for the better. You will experience pleasant surprises, unexpected positive things will come out of the blue! Miracles will happen. That’s what happens if you chose to rise above whatever problem, situation, challenge in life. Try it out, you have nothing to lose.  Start with small things and when you are succesfull take it to the next level. Maybe you have a partner or friend that wants to exercise with you, so you have support of someone like minded. Or share your experiences here on WP, share on Facebook, or your personal website.  Start journaling!

I wish you the best of luck. You can do it, I know you can! Let me know what you think, share your experiences with me in a comment. I love to hear from you!

 

It starts with baby steps to become great!

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A lot of us, myself included, want to manifest BIG things. We want money, a great car, a beautiful house, or just feeling the freedom, being abundant, etc.

That is my goal, being totally 100% independent, abundant, free, feeling the positive strong vibes all the time and not only a few days a month 🙂

Lots of things have already changed since I started blogging here only 2 weeks ago! It feels like I’ve been here for much longer but it’s really only 2 weeks! Amazing!

So what did change? At first my mindset, my focus. I was driving myself nuts worrying about bills unable to pay for, etc. I was focussing on them too much. Not anymore. They are still there, I’m aware of that, but I changed my focus. It’s that simple. Being worried about them won’t change much and make it worse: the Law of Attraction… My focus is now on wealth, abundance, freedom… and this changed my energy. I feel so much stronger, unbelievable! But true! If it were different I would post a blog about it.

I refuse to be frustrated!

The process of Manifesting won’t be instant, there are exceptions, of course, but let’s be honest: if it were so easy the entire World would be instant millionaire 🙂 It would be so wonderful if every human being on Earth could live in wealth, we all deserve it right!

The big mistake I made, and you probably too 😉 is that we forget about the “small” gifts the Universe offers us every second! Now I ask you to sit down, leave my blog post for a few seconds and look around you… what is it you see?Just After that return over here 😀

What did you see?

Your tv? Your laptop/PC? Your cosy couch? Other furniture? Your dog/cat loving you to eternity? Did you realise that because there is such thing as electricity you can be here right now… And did you spot the fact that water is flowing through the tap? YOU manifested this…. I did too… Did you enjoy you coffee today (or tea?) , I certainly did! And once again: YOU manifested this.

Now I will give you a challenge: intent to manifest something small today or tomorrow, something you already know you can make it… like a cup of coffee, a fresh salad, a walk through the park, reading a few chapters of a book, or…. whatever it is, but make sure it is something you really can do. Be nice to yourself. Don’t set your goal too high!

State out loud (or if you’re shy: write down or whisper): Today I create…. (up to you what it is as long as you’re convinced it is something easy)

Once your intention is manifested enjoy the present moment! Applaud yourself, give yourself a huge compliment, wow… you DID it…

One step at a time

Don’t ask too much of yourself, be gentle with yourself, patient, loving… If you can manifest a cup of coffee try manifesting something a little bit more difficult but still within reach…like enjoying a cheese pancake with friends 😉 Also within reach. Don’t run too fast. You are a student, when you went to highschool I’m sure you didn’t graduate the day after joining… The same counts, in my humble opinion, for the University of the Law of Attraction…

What you focus on will grow. I just read a great article of my follower James, see his article here:

http://beyondthecall.wordpress.com/2012/01/31/get-the-message/

And commented 😉

It takes baby steps, once you master these baby steps you can go further and take a bigger challenge… one step at a time. Be patient with yourself.Allowe yourself TIME… let go off the pressure… it’s not a competition, it’s you walking YOUR path… it’s your journey. I share mine here…

Thanks for reading, I loved the writing, it’s my passion I can tell you that!

Great visualisation tool

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The worldwide web is full of goodies to support you in manifesting the life you want. Like this one, the Secret to You…

In order to attract what you want in life visualisation is a very important part of the manifesting process. The makers of the famous book ‘The Secret’ created a free YouTube to help you on your way. It’s a visualisation tool, use it at least once a day, and watch the positive changes enter your life by miracle! Best of all: it only takes a couple of minutes of your time, so no more excuses you haven’t got the time to do this 😉

I’m in love with it and decided to share it with you. I hope you’ll enjoy it as much as I do! And more important: that it will help you achieving your dreams, goals, etc.

http://thesecret.tv/secret-to-you

 

The wallet process

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I love to google, twitter, read blogs, etc. about attracting money and wealth. Today I found a very interesting blog post offering a simple process to create an abundant mindset called “the wallet process”.

In this blog post the author, Keith Cook, advises to obtain a 100 dollar bill and keep it on your person at all times. Plus you need to remind yourself often that it’s there. Whenever you walk through the mall or shopping street think of all the stuff you could buy with 100 dollar. Clothes, a nice dinner, or whatever you’d love to buy.

The feeling you have the money already changes your mindset! Your changed vibration will start to attract more money. Keith writes this about it:

if you were to remember your hundred dollars and spend it on the first thing that you notice, you gain the benefit of really feeling your financial well-being only once. But if you mentally spent that hundred dollars 40 or 50 times that day, you gain the feeling advantage of having spent 4 or 5 thousand dollars.

I find this theory very interesting, I’ve never tried it, 100 dollar or in my case 100 euro is a lot of money to me! Still I want to try it! And I think I know a way to do it as I own a credit card 😉 I can obtain that 100 euro bill, just to give it a try, to get into the vibration of abundance, wealth, to empower myself. It could even be fun!

Have you ever tried this? I’d love to hear experiences from people! I’ll keep you posted of my own with the wallet process. It’s an exciting idea! Don’t you think so? I definitely do!

If you’d like to read Keith Cook’s blog post you can find it here:

http://lifepassion.net/a-simple-process-to-creat-an-abundant-mindset/trackback/

About the Law of Attraction

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I’m not a Law of Attraction guru, but I do study its principles. If you’re new to the Law of Attraction (LOA) you might wonder what it is all about. I’ll give it a try to share some information about the LOA that you might find useful to understand the principles better.

Description of the Law of Attraction

The law of attraction is the belief that anyone can determine their destiny through the power of their minds.

“The LOA attracts to you everything you need, according to the nature of your thoughts. Your environment and financial condition are the perfect reflection of your habitual thinking.”  Joseph Murphy

The theory behind the LOA is the belief that energy attracts like energy in the vast expanse of space and time that comprises our Universe. You and I are constantly radiating energy out into space. What type of energy we radiate depends on our emotions, thoughts, feelings, etc.

In what mood are you today?

If you’re happy you radiate happy (strong) energy. You’re in the flow, you feel powerful, etc. On the other hand, if you feel sad, tired you’ll radiate the opposite energy, instead of strong energy you radiate weak energy. Wonder what person will accomplish what he/she wants better: the happy person or the sad/tired person… The answer is not so difficult and it shows the basic principle of the LOA.

No modern New Age nonsense

The LOA is not some kind of modern New Age nonsense. Did you know that the principles of the Law of Attraction date back far beyond the new-found popularity of the New Age?

The immortal Buddha was actually one of the first to introduce man to the Law Of Attraction. He said taught his students:

“What you have become is what you have thought.”

This was a principle that the people of the east were acquainted with for centuries before it began to sweep into the western society.

The LOA began to gain popularity in the western society in the 19th century, as people began to appreciate the power of positive thinking and apply it to their life. This new concept was first introduced to the general public by William Walker Atkinson, the editor of New Thought magazine. Atkinson published a book called “Thought Vibration” or the Law of Attraction in the Thought World in 1906.

The LOA is not new. The concept that our thoughts can have a predominate effect on the course of a man’s destiny has been taught by many wise men and women throughout the ages.

Let’s start attracting!

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I’m a big believer in that thing called the Law of Attraction (LOA).

One of my biggest challenges is attracting money and wealth in my life. Somehow I keep on failing and you can guess what happens: at this moment I attract debt, bills I can’t pay for, financial worries, etc.

But hey, don’t worry, I see this as a wonderful opportunity, I consider myself a student and I’m learning on my way to master this particular thing.

In life we meet dozens of teachers in many ways, forms, etc. It might be people you meet, workshops you attend, books you read, even your goldfish can be a teacher. It’s up to the student to be open to learn and receive valuable lessons.

Nothing in life happens without a reason. Even a so-called personal or financial crisis comes at the perfect time and place. You might not like it, who likes to feel in debt, pain, worries, etc. I certainly don’t! On the other hand I have the choice how to handle it. I can collapse, feel depressed, afraid, worried, etc. Or I can choose to see it as a big adventure, a college from the University called Life… And that’s the way I handle stuff that comes my way. No matter how hard it can be (and believe me, right now it is!)

So to me i’m attending the big college of how to attract money into my life. I know ALL people deserve wealth, abundance, freedom, love, a good life, etc. So why not me! And I’m writing this not even knowing if I will be able to keep on paying for my rent, to pay the electricity bill, to be able to buy food, etc. That is where I am right now, NO money at all. It is fearful, I must be honest about that. But I’m not the type of person to collapse or fall into a depression. I can even see the humor of the situation, because I created it. With my thoughts and feelings about money, about abundance, about wealth, about ME…

I accept I created my life untill now including where I am right now. So I also take responsibility and want to act upon it. I know I can turn things around, we all can. Sometimes it’s hard to find the right key that opens the door to inner freedom. Because that is what money is: money is not happiness. Money is not what makes you smile. Money is simply a tool that comes in handy and if you have an abundance of money you feel free, freedom is what we want to be able to express ourselves, to follow our heart, to support others, to find inner peace and happiness.

Last Sunday I was surfing the internet, using Google to find things about how to attract money/wealth in my life as I’ve really had it. I don’t want all the worries anymore you see! Through many searches I found a series of videos from Joe Vitale. I heard his name before but I never read any of his books or so. Joe Vitale is a famous coach, writer, entrepreneur  etc. in the US, he’s the master of how to change your life, how to attract whatever you want and/or need. He really is. As I was watching his videos on YouTube I was so touched, I was crying. Because his story is so similar to mine. He once was where I am right now: no money in the pocket, almost bankrupt, not sure where the next stop will be.

He mentioned he wrote an e-book about attracting money. And because he knows what it’s like to live in poverty, to almost have nothing, he offers it for free. I felt so excited, I immediately went to the website where the book is available. I will share the link with you in a moment. It almost sounded to good to be true… but arriving there I found out that he indeed offers his e-book: “Attract Money Now” for free, no obligations, no nothing, only provide your e-mail  (which is absolutely safe) and you’ll get a link to download.

So you can imagine how happy I’m feeling as I see this as a treasure, a gift from the Universe, nothing in life is accidental, all things come at the right time and the right place, this was perfect timing from the Universe. I already started reading and I already experienced many “wow” moments… I feel like a child that got the best birthday present ever 😉 So a big thank you to the Universe and a big thank you to Joe Vitale for giving me this great opportunity. I’m going to read and re-read every word written in the book, follow every single step and keep you posted here about my progress.

You might be in the same situation as me or simply want to attract more money/wealth etc. in your life. If so or if you know someone who does, please surf to Joe’s website to download your free e-book, just as I did last Sunday. You won’t be disappointed, I can promise you that.

This is the link:

http://www.attractmoneynow.com/